(Considering that their very survival relies on emotion accepted. ) Envision how they would experience if they were to be left behind or experience that they were. These are some of those people who appear to stick with abusive relationships or live with destroying situations. Even if they have other more healthy interactions, they may keep on being loyal (to some degree) to that unhealthy one. I) Suicidal-- nearly all people with borderline personality disorder when deserted or experience that they have been abandoned will resort to using committing suicide to operate. This is often an blank threat or deliberate failed tries--a last ditch effort. Used to get those who abandoned them to get in touch and coddle their needs. sometimes this comes in the form of self-defacement and self-torture. But then there are those who plunge so deep inside their own created void that they sense there is no other method out than in decease. Is dealing with borderline personality disorder very painful and frustrating to you? Are you seeking tips and methods to assist you with the problems borderline personality disorder brings you and in your relations? One very helpful idea would be to change your take on the very painful past activities. They don’t settle on what kind of individual you're inside.