mental agitationThese two patterns will probably result in an volatile "love-hate" relation with sure people. lots of people with borderline personality disorder appear to be caught with a very rigid "black-white" view of relationships. Either a relationship is perfect and that man or woman is wonderful, or the relationship is condemned and that human being is terrible. People with borderline personality disorder seem unable or unwilling to accept any sort of "grey area" in their personal life and relationships. For many people with borderline personality disorder, ressponsive relationships (including interactions with professional carers) involve "go away!/please don’t go" states of mind, which is confusing for them and their partners. Sadly, this can frequently cause break-ups.
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